Citizens

This time at home has surprisingly been a blessing. I acknowledge that's not the case for many people, but it doesn't mean it can't be for many people. Only when we are forced to change or slow down can we step back and see reality for a moment. When the normal routines are interrupted and we actually have the time to re-evaluate how we lived before this disrupted us. It's like when we need a tragedy to remember those closest to us are most important, or when we need something taken from us to realize how much we are dependent on it. Yes, I've still been busy with school and work, but being at home has helped me to see things different and to truly reflect on how I want to continue to live when this passes.

Last week, I read an "Introduction to American Culture" from Yale University for class. The article was written for international students coming to the U.S. for the first time. Three of the top American values noted were Individualism, Time & Efficiency, and Achievement.

I've never read an introduction to our own society. There were so many things I didn't even notice we do as Americans. And I think: "Wait, there are societies that don't value those things?" Of course, but I never have the time to stop and think about it. Ironic, isn't it? And I see it in myself: individualistic, wanting to be productive without pause, worried about my "achievements."

Despite what we see on here or on the television, I've really seen people, communities, families be able to slow down. To come together and love one another. To go on walks and enjoy the quiet for a moment. Neighbors care for one another and chat for a bit, because we actually have the time to. I've seen a lot of beauty lately.

I know this isn't the reality for everyone (and thank you to everyone working tirelessly to keep us safe), but I hope to remember these things when life goes back to what we knew as "normal," when our society goes back to pursuing our next achievement, when it all speeds up again and it's hard to find the time to take a deep breath. American values aren't bad, but a fresh perspective reinforces or invites question to the ways we live our lives.

We are one people, broken and beautiful. Global citizens. Let us not forget what matters.